Chide them positively for their wrongs...never hurt them. Hurt can go deeper, and the child will only rebel.

Your presence with them is more valuable for your child than your presents.

If a child doesn't learn the way you teach, then teach the way child learns. Don't get frustrated. Understand his limitations in learning or otherwise. Again, don't get tempted to compare!

Don't be over protective towards your kids. A little dose of stress is required for a healthy personality.

Have a discussion with your child to learn their point of view before imposing your thoughts on the child.

Nurture the child you have not the child you want.

Promote healthy physical activity from a young age for a sharper mind and a healthy body.

At all times, recall your younger days and how you were at that age....it helps you understand them better.

If one parent acts tough and chides the child, the other parent should comfort the child. But this should be a well-thought-out plan between parents. Roles should be reversed at times. This should be done carefully as a teamwork between parents, rather than score brownie points from children. This is purely to show love to kid and show that the child is always welcome at home.